12/21/20
Eight months of no social media, free from the phone prison, the “cell”
phone as we call it, free from the toxicity and negativity going on in the
world right now. I spent this past year deeply learning more about myself,
really digging inside my mind and focusing on the inner and “shadow”
work. Just really figuring out who I am and what my greater purpose is on
this earth. To be honest, I wore a “mask” nightly, a smile on my face,
surrounded by what every man dreams of being around, but was hiding
and running away from a much deeper inner issue inside of me. I admit I
once had a drug addiction problem in my past, but I am now completely
clean and sober for about a year now. I made a promise and pact with
myself that I will never consume hard alcohol or drugs ever again.
I’ve been spending the majority of my time writing a book, a memoir
on my life and personal experiences over the last decade in this fickle
industry. Revealing the truth behind nightlife, my struggles with drug
and alcohol addiction, acceptance, love and depression, every single
inch of it. Just a real and raw edit through my eyes and personal
friendships, a-list relationships, and real life experiences. I will also
be deeply talking about the tragedy that occurred in 2017, the text
messages, the truth, every detail, every bit and piece of it. All the false
allegations and fake speculations will finally be put to rest, the truth
will unveil and be told.
Also, this will be the last time I speak on here about this subject:
I want to make it very clear that I did not give any illegal substances
to the woman who passed that day in 2017, nor did I give anyone any
illegal substances to give to her. Her death was unfortunate and
saddening. I don’t wish bad upon anyone and never wish to see anything
like this happen to anybody. But to be clear, my language used that
morning did not in any way cause her death. I also want to make it very
clear that I got her approval to give her phone number to the person
whom she was later hanging out with that morning, she was a thirty year
old woman who made her own decisions to hangout with who she wanted
to. She had her own message exchange with the person she was hanging
out with in which she later decided she wanted to continue to party and
hang else where with this person and others. I did indeed check on her
after her last text message to me and made she sure she was ok before I
had walked her and three others out my door that morning where
everyone appeared in good spirits and in good shape. I later learned, she
continued to party at a friends place, where she was found unresponsive
and not breathing five hours after she left my home, where
I was not present.
For the record, the person that twisted this story and confused everyone
about this 2017 tragedy with his instagram page full of bullying and
harassment, is the same person that has been destroying lives for years.
He is the root of the confusion on this entire situation. He ran a gossip/fake
news website for years, where he would talk sh*t, harass and bully
people. His source of living is based off destroying peoples lives
with misleading information and fake news and watching others torment
each other with aliases and fake names in the comment section. He was
continually making posts about me in 2017, he or someone else was
commenting under his own blog posts with my name “Eli Wehbe” to make
it look like it was me. I never once replied or responded to any of his
posts. He now ran this story with misleading information to gain clout for
his instagram page and continued to post and bash me for likes,
comments, and attention in an extremely cruel way. For those of you that
believed that I said any of those messages, I’m sorry, but it wasn’t me.
I would never tell anyone to come after party at the club to celebrate
someone’s death. Once again, those messages are fake. However, I am
deeply sorry and take full accountability and responsibility for the
language and substance of the texts that I did write that morning—
that information I willingly gave to the police to help with their
investigation when they came to my home—those same text messages
were stated in a civil lawsuit that was made by the lawyers of the
parents of the woman that passed.
A civil lawsuit is a lawsuit based on non-criminal statues,
which is usually measured in money aka a personal injury case.
What you guys had read online is NOT a police report, it’s a
one sided complaint in a civil lawsuit filled with misstatements filed
against several others as well, not the reality of the situation. In reality,
I did not orchestrate that morning or “assign” anyone to anybody,
everyone made their own choices and did what they wanted to do, no
one forced anyone to do anything. The lawyers of the parents created
their own malicious storyline and got people to believe it to gain some
traction, leaving out the majority of the truth by not exposing the police
report and strategically only using certain text messages to make their
narrative believable.
The unfortunate reality is, people only hear
what they want to hear. They don’t care about facts anymore.
Most will interpret what they hear into a narrative that
fits into what they believe and no matter what, they will
always believe that their ideas are correct. I’ve also noticed that
people will interpret facts differently if it challenges their
personal beliefs, group identity or moral values. There had been people
bullying and harassing me, my friends and family, people really trying
to tear me down, this problem usually stems from some inner anger
issues people go through and this is a way for them to release and
reflect it back onto others. I wish you all nothing but the best and hope
you find true happiness in your hearts and in your lives. Unfortunately,
people that are mentally weak, with no strong mind set would be
suicidal having to deal with and read the bullying I was currently
going through. I admit I had some terrible language that morning
that I sincerely apologized for, but again that language did not result
in or cause her death and I know damn well if we were to go through
majority of anyone’s phones, text messages and group chats they
have or had said some awful words that they did not truly mean and
would most definitely not want any of it publicized. This “cancel culture”
society we live in gives nobody a chance to learn from their mistakes,
gives nobody a chance to grow, learn or evolve—truly a sad world we
currently are living in.
I’ve found inner peace in my life through different physical and mental
practices, meditations and daily routines that has really paid off and
has been the best life accomplishment and reward out there. I’m going
to be focusing my career now in health and wellness, my true passion.
Also, I am currently running 100 miles a week or more, training to
complete and compete in some of the toughest foot races out there
(ULTRA marathons) and will be documenting the experience.
Just know with anything that you do, you will be judged, some will
hate you, some will love you and you will be thrown in different
situations and tests that will ultimately aid you or drain you. It's your
choice and your mindset on how you perceive these challenging situations,
most importantly, your reaction and your efforts towards it all, the good
and the bad, that will ultimately and truly make all the difference. I hope
my journey through thick and thin as a well-versed and serial
entrepreneur, nightlife mogul and a plant based avid marathon and
long distance runner will inspire others to seek a bright and fulfilling
future, to live a positive, meaningful and healthy lifestyle.
I hope my story creates a path of light for a greater good, for
all mental, physical and spiritual health aspects.
Book release date coming soon.
Much love.
